February 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 2)
What if dying weren't a bad thing? Caroline's death had left me with a great and terrible gift: how to live in a world where loss, some of it unbearable, is as common as dust or moonlight. And then, finally, unwittingly, acceptance wraps itself around your heart.
~ Gail Caldwell in LET'S TAKE THE LONG WAY HOME
Gail Caldwell Let's Take The Long Way Home heart
February 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 2)
Will you be my refuge,
My haven in the storm,
Will you keep the embers warm,
When my fire's all but gone?
Will you remember, And bring me sprigs of rosemary,
Be my sanctuary,
'Til I can carry on, Carry on.
~ Carrie Newcomer from the song "Sanctuary"
Carrie Newcomer heart
February 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 2)

There is life without love. It is not worth a bent penny, or a scuffed shoe...When you hear, a mile away and still out of sight, the churn of the water as it begins to swirl and roil, fretting around the sharp rocks—when you hear that unmistakable pounding—when you feel the mist on your mouth and sense ahead the embattlement, the long fall plunging and steaming—then row, row for your life toward it.

~ Mary Oliver from "West Wind" in NEW AND SELECTED POEMS, VOL. 2
Mary Oliver Vol. 2, New And Selected Poems heart
February 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 2)

Those are red letter days in our lives when we meet people who thrill us like a fine poem, people whose handshake is brimful of unspoken sympathy, and whose sweet, rich natures impart to our eager, impatient spirits a wonderful restfullness which, in is essence, is divine...The perplexities, irritations, and worries that have absorbed us pass like unpleasant dreams, and we wake to see with new eyes and hear with new ears the beauty and harmony of God's real world. The solemn nothings that fill our everyday life blossom suddenly into bright possibilities.

~ Helen Keller in THE STORY OF MY LIFE
Helen Keller The Story Of My Life heart
February 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 2)

Lesson of the moment: I am not a little autonomous being, deciding this or that about my own life without interference. I am a thread in a tapestry of people.

~ Deborah Good in LONG AFTER I'M GONE: A FATHER-DAUGHTER MEMOIR
Deborah Good Long After I'm Gone: A Father-daughter Memoir heart
February 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 2)
A fragment of fence long trampled
by those who needed most to pass.
Pilgrim, immigrant, refugee,
all journeys severe, all made in longing.
Most cross over what's already breached,
but the step is long and touches down
In a world that takes heart
in the breaking of what divides.
~ Steve Godwin from "What Divides" in FINDING HEART
Steve Godwin Finding Heart heart
February 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 2)
Sometimes I can sit under a tree
looking into the spaces
between branches,
And wait on the silence...
~ Steve Godwin from "Just Another Song" in FINDING HEART
Steve Godwin Finding Heart heart
February 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 2)

There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

~ C.S. Lewis in THE COLLECTED LETTERS OF C.S. LEWIS
C.S. Lewis The Collected Letters Of C.s. Lewis heart
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
You are not obliged to be beautiful
You don't have to shine.
Blooming will happen when it happens.
If you can be still for a moment
you might notice that
the roots that feed you
are still reaching silently through the dark.
~ Lynn Ungar in "November" from THESE DAYS: POEMS FOR THE PANDEMIC AGE
Lynn Ungar These Days: Poems For The Pandemic Age forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
I wondered if that was how forgiveness budded; not with the fanfare of epiphany, but with pain gathering its things, packing up, and slipping away unannounced in the middle of the night.
~ Khaled Hosseini in THE KITE RUNNER
Khaled Hosseini The Kite Runner forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
If there is anywhere on earth a lover of God who is always kept safe, I know nothing of it, for it was not shown to me. But this was shown: that in falling and rising again we are always kept in that same precious love.
~ Julian of Norwich
Julian of Norwich forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
...there are at least two ways to understand what it means to have our hearts broken. One is to imagine the heart broken into shards and scattered about—a feeling most of us know, and a fate we would like to avoid. The other is to imagine the heart broken open into new capacity—a process that is not without pain but one that many of us would welcome. As I stand in the tragic gap between reality and possibility, this small, tight fist of a thing called my heart can break open into greater capacity to hold more of my own and the world's suffering and joy, despair and hope.
~ Parker Palmer in A HIDDEN WHOLENESS: THE JOURNEY TOWARD AN UNDIVIDED LIFE
Parker Palmer A Hidden Wholeness: The Journey Toward An Undivided Life forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
Our apprenticeship with sorrow has led us here, to the very edge of culture and the wild, uncertain times we are in...We are being called upon to gather the wisdom we have found on our long walk with sorrow and make it available for others. We must enter the healing ground as elders who have been seasoned by grief, recognizing we carry soul medicine for those who are beginning their apprenticeship. Perhaps now we can begin to build a new culture, one that honors soul and the soul of the world.
~ Francis Weller in THE WILD EDGE OF SORROW
Francis Weller The Wild Edge Of Sorrow forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in
~ Leonard Cohen from "Anthem"
Leonard Cohen forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
Someone I loved once gave me
a box full of darkness.

It took me years to understand
that this, too, was a gift.
~ Mary Oliver in "The Uses of Sorrow" from THIRST
Mary Oliver Thirst forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)

...many people have trouble with forgiveness because they have been taught that it is a singular act to be completed in one sitting. That is not so. Forgiveness has many layers, many seasons.

~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes in WOMEN WHO RUN WITH THE WOLVES
Clarissa Pinkola Estes Women Who Run With The Wolves forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
All intimate relationships—close friendships and good marriages—are based on continued and mutual forgiveness. You will always trespass upon your friend's sensibilities at one time or another, or your spouse's. The only question is, Will you forgive the other person? And more importantly, Will you forgive yourself? We have to deepen our understanding, make ourselves more equal to circumstances, more easy with what we have been given or not given. We must drink from the deep well of things as they are.
~ David Whyte
David Whyte forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
So let us pick up
the stones over which we stumble,
friends, and build altars...

Let us name the harsh light and
soft darkness that surround us.

Let's claw ourselves out from the graves we've dug.

Let's lick the earth from our fingers.

Let us look up and out and around.
The world is big and wide and wild and wonderful and wicked,
and
our lives are murky, magnificent, malleable, and full of meaning.
Oremus.
Let us pray.
~ Padraig O'Tuama in DAILY PRAYER WITH THE CORRYMEELA COMMUNITY
Padraig O'Tuama Daily Prayer With The Corrymeela Community forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
To live without forgiveness is to live separated from the sacred and from the most basic instincts of our heart. To live with forgiveness is to reveal in each moment the beauty and value of life. To live with forgiveness is to choose in each moment an active role in creating relationships, organizations, communities, and a world that works for everyone.
~ Robin Casarjian in FORGIVENESS
Robin Casarjian Forgiveness forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
Finally, "love endures all things."... Everything that is tough and brittle shatters; everything that is cynical rots. The only way to endure is to forgive, over and over, to give back that openness and possibility for new beginning which is the very essence of love itself. And in such a way love comes full circle and can fully "sustain and make fruitful," and the cycle begins again, at a deeper place.
~ Cynthia Bourgeault in LOVE IS STRONGER THAN DEATH
Cynthia Bourgeault Love Is Stronger Than Death forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)

A blessing is not a sentiment or a question; it is a gracious invocation where the human heart pleads with the divine heart. There is nothing more intimate in a life than the secret under-territory where it anchors...there is no heart that is without this inner divine reference.

~ John O'Donohue in TO BLESS THE SPACE BETWEEN US
To Bless The Space Between Us forgiveness
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
Contemplation is that activity which situates us in an open space from which we can observe and contribute to the course of the universe ... that activity that delights in the well-being of all beings, that maintains the world in cohesion.
~ Raimundo Panikkar in BLESSED SIMPLICITY
Raimundo Panikkar Blessed Simplicity wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
If you seek Wisdom in the first place, you will find that Wisdom is joyous. If you seek the joy of Wisdom in the first place, you will fall prey to illusions.
~ Valentin Tomberg in MEDITATIONS ON THE TAROT
Valentin Tomberg Meditations On The Tarot wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
If you are searching, you must not stop until you find. When you find, however, you will become troubled. Your confusion will give way to wonder. In wonder you will reign over all things.
~ Gospel of Thomas, Logion 2
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The person who makes all cares into one care— the care for simply staying present— will be cared for by that presence which is creative love.

~ Kabir Helminski
Kabir Helminski wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

Just sit there right now
Don't do a thing
Just rest
For your separation from God
Is the hardest work in this world
Let me bring you trays of food
And something that you like to drink
You can use my soft words
As a cushion for your head

~ Hafiz from "Cushion for Your Head" in THE GIFT
Hafiz The Gift wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
All those magical, predestined, and irreplaceable people and places are not really that, not really the answer. Rather, we have to stay with the hunger of the question and from its energy fill the space with our own choices, and then with the new things which will be called forth from us in the unexpected poverty and limitation in which our necessarily imperfect choices necessarily situate us.
~ Bruno Barnhart in SECOND SIMPLICITY
Bruno Barnhart Second Simplicity wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

I would love to live
like a river flows,
carried by the surprise
of its own unfolding.

~ John O'Donahue from "Fluent" in CONAMARA BLUES
John O'Donohue Conamara Blues wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
States aren't real. They come and go. Only Being is real.
~ Sunyata a.k.a. Alfred Sorensen, Danish mystic
Sunyata wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
The wellsprings of life are bubbling up anew each moment. So when the angel is troubling the waters, it is no time to stand on the bank and recite past wonders.
~ Thomas Kelly in A TESTAMENT OF DEVOTION
Thomas Kelly A Testament Of Devotion wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
Faith is a continual inner effort, a continual altering of the mind, of the habitual ways of thought, of the habitual ways of taking everything, of habitual reactions.
~ Maurice Nicoll in THE NEW MAN
Maurice Nicoll The New Man wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

The first task, clearly, is to detach the sense of identity from the descriptions of yourself. This does not mean to find another description that would be the correct one. It means to realize there is no description of you.

~ Beatrice Bruteau in PRAYER AND IDENTITY
Beatrice Bruteau Prayer And Identity wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
The soul is like a wild animal — tough, resilient, savvy, self-sufficient and yet exceedingly shy. If we want to see a wild animal, the last thing we should do is to go crashing through the woods, shouting for the creature to come out. But if we are willing to walk quietly into the woods and sit silently for an hour or two at the base of a tree, the creature we are waiting for may well emerge, and out of the corner of an eye we will catch a glimpse of the precious wildness we seek.
~ Parker J. Palmer in A HIDDEN WHOLENESS
Parker J Palmer A Hidden Wholeness wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

From the place where we are right
Flowers will never grow
In the spring.

The place where we are right
Is hard and trampled
Like a yard.

But doubts and loves
Dig up the world
Like a mole, a plow.

And a whisper will be heard in the place
Where the ruined
House once stood.

~ Yehuda Amichai from "The Place Where We Are Right" in A TOUCH OF GRACE
Yehuda Amichai A Touch Of Grace wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
Art thou in the darkness?
Mind it not, for if thou dost
it will feed thee more.
But stand still, and act not,
and wait in patience
till light arises out of darkness
and leads thee.
~ James Naylor
James Naylor wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

I know that I have life
only insofar as I have love.

I have no love
except it come from Thee.

Help me please to carry
this candle against the wind.

~ Wendell Berry from "I know that I have life" in LEAVINGS
Wendell Berry Leavings wonder
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
The more alert we become to the blessings that flow into us from everything we touch, the more our own touch will bring blessing.
~ Br. David Stendl-Rast
Br. David Stendl-Rast gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
If the only prayer we say to God is "thank you," that is enough.
~ Meister Eckhart
Meister Eckhart gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
... prayer is not asking for what you think you want but asking to be changed in ways you can't imagine. To be made more grateful, more able to see the good in what you have been given instead of always grieving for what might have been.
~ Kathleen Norris in AMAZING GRACE
Kathleen Norris Amazing Grace gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
What fascinates me so much is that every time we decide to be grateful, it will be easier to see new things to be grateful for. Gratitude begets gratitude, just as love begets love.
~ Henri Nouwen in LIFE OF THE BELOVED
Henri Nouwen Life Of The Beloved gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
I have learned to quit speeding through life, always trying to do too many things too quickly, without taking the time to enjoy each day's doings. I think I always thought of real living as being high. I don't mean on drugs – I mean real living was falling in love, or when I got my first job, or when I was able to help somebody . . . In between the highs I was impatient — you know how it is — life seemed so Daily. Now I love the dailiness. I enjoy washing dishes, I enjoy cooking, I see my father's roses out the kitchen window. I like picking beans. I notice everything – birdsongs, the clouds, the sound of wind, the glory of sunshine after two weeks of rain. These are the things I took for granted before [cancer].
~ Olive Ann Burns quoted in MITTEN STRINGS FOR GOD by Katrina Kenison
Olive Ann Burns Mitten Strings For God gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
Why do you spend money for that which is not bread, and your labor for that which does not satisfy?
~ Isaiah 55:2
gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
Desire is a tricky thing, the boiling of the body's wants...
I've been the one who has craved and craved until I could not see
beyond my own greed. There's a whole nation of us.
To forgive myself, I point to the earth as witness.
... tell me,
what it is to be quiet, and yet still breathing...
...to honor this: the length of days. To speak to the core
that creates and swallows, to speak not always to what's
shouting, but to what's underneath asking for nothing...
~ Ada Limon from "Notes on the Below" in THE CARRYING
Ada Limon The Carrying gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)

The god of dirt
came up to me many times and said
so many wise and delectable things, I lay
on the grass listening

to his dog voice,
crow voice,
frog voice; now,
he said, and now,
and never once mentioned forever...

~ Mary Oliver from "One or Two Things" in NEW AND SELECTED POEMS: VOLUME ONE
Mary Oliver New And Selected Poems: Volume One gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
Let gratitude be the pillow upon which you kneel to say your nightly prayer.
~ Maya Angelou
Maya Angelou gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)

Beneath the intricate network of noise
there's a still more persistent tapestry
woven of whispers, murmurs and chants

It's the heaving breath of the very earth
carrying along the prayer of all things:
trees, ants, stones, creeks and mountains alike

All giving silent thanks and remembrance
each moment, as a tug on a rosary bead
while we hurry past, heedless of the mysteries

And, yet, every secret wants to be told
every shy creature to approach and trust us
if we patiently listen, with all our senses.

~ Yahia Lababidi from "Breath" in BARELY THERE
Yahia Lababidi Barely There gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
When I started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around.
~ Willie Nelson
Willie Nelson gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
In ordinary life, we hardly realize that we receive a great deal more than we give, and that it is only with gratitude that life becomes rich.
~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Dietrich Bonhoeffer gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)

If you provided a marriage feast
and the thankless guests crowded
at the table, gobbling the food
without tasting it, and shoving
one another away, so that some ate
too much and some ate nothing,
would you not be offended?

Or if, seated at your bountiful table,
your guests picked and finicked
over the food, eating only a little,
refusing the wine and the dessert,
claiming that to fill their bellies
and rejoice would impair their souls,
would you not be offended?

~ Wendell Berry from "Two Questions" in ENTRIES
Wendell Berry Entries gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)

When eating fruit, remember the one who planted the tree.

~ Vietnamese proverb
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