I support you;
You support me.
I am in the world to offer you peace;
You are in the world to bring me joy.
~ from "CALL ME BY MY TRUE NAMES" by Thich Nhat Hanh
Unfortunately, change and forgiveness do not come easily for me, but ANY willingness to let go inevitably comes from pain; and the desire to change and forgive changes you, and jiggles the spirit, gets to it somehow, to the deepest, hardest, most ruined parts. And then Spirit expands, because that is its nature, and it brings along the body, and finally, the mind.