Rainer Maria Rilke, Eric Torgersen

To multiply a loved one's freedom by all the freedom we can find in ourselves

This is guilt, if anything is guilt: not to multiply a loved one's freedom by all the freedom we can find in ourselves. We have, in loving, only this one task: to let each other go. For holding on is easy for us, nothing we need learn.

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We may enjoy an experience of God that is so delightful that we may think all our troubles are over and we have at last completed the journey.Then after a few hours or a few days we find ourselves on the spiral staircase again and cannot even remember the pleasures of that transient experience of divine union.The whole purpose of this alternation is to bring the soul to the total transformation of love.

~ from FRUITS AND GIFTS OF THE SPIRIT by Thomas Keating