Shake hands
You can't shake hands with a clenched fist.
You are prayer. You are a special and sacred word of God made flesh. To pronounce your own unique word is to pray the most beautiful -- if not the holiest -- of prayers.
To become divine is to become attuned to the whole of creation.
"It is better to put one's heart into one's prayer without finding the right words, than to find the right words without putting one's heart into them."